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Divorce: Tips for a smooth transition

On Behalf of | May 12, 2020 | Uncategorized

Ending a marriage is one of the most stressful events that any person can experience in life. Divorce is something that nearly half of all married couples in Illinois will face. During this very emotional and vulnerable time, it can be easy for an individual to spiral out of control. For those who are going through a divorce, these tips could make for a smoother transition from married life to single life.

It is always helpful to maintain a level of mutual respect with an ex-spouse, which can be very difficult to do depending on the circumstances surrounding the split. Many people are tempted to fight it out in a lengthy court battle, but this should be a last resort. A prolonged court battle will only lead to more expenses and added emotional strain. Instead of fighting, be cooperative and work together to find a common future goal or interest, which will help maintain civility throughout the process. For example, most ex-spouses with children will find common ground by agreeing to place children as the top priority.

When divorce is imminent, consider options such as collaborative divorce or mediation instead of jumping straight into court proceedings. Mediation is a very popular process among divorcing couples. This private process uses a neutral third party, known as a mediator, to reach a peaceful resolution outside of court. Collaborative divorce is another popular option to avoid lengthy court battles. In this process, divorcing parties will sign an agreement to work toward a resolution without litigation.

Ending a marriage is never easy. However, by following these tips the process could be less stressful. Questions will always arise during the process of divorce. Those in Illinois who are going through divorce can obtain much-needed guidance by consulting an experienced family law attorney.